up coming difficult time

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up coming difficult time

Postby zereld07 » 02 Jun 2012, 06:25

I have a difficult week approaching and I have just started working with crystals and truly believe in the powers they hold so therefore my problem is this: my ex-husband is set to be released from prison next week although I have not seen him for many years and he has been in and out of prison for most of his life I have always thought of him as the only person I ever really loved, we married very young and things were crazy, I moved out of state to get away from him because I knew it wasn't a healthy realtionship. I have since had 2 kids and I am a single mom, I rarely talk about about him and if I do it is to immediate family and 1 close friend with whom I trust completly because I am embarrased that I would have an ex-husband in prison, But whenever he is out for the short periods of time before he will do something and be sent back we have sometimes been in contact over the phone. Although I have no desire to get back together with him, when I talk to him it brings back all these old emotions..it is extremley difficult to explain But in the end he ends up back in trouble and I end up in a downworld spiral of negative emotions. This time I am looking to block this off before it starts because I am already stressing over his release, I am friends with one of his family members on FB and it wouldn't be hard for him to try and contact me. I was hoping someone would have some ideas of certain crystals I should carry in the next couple weeks or ANYTHING I could do to NOT let him effect me this time around.

Thanks!!!
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Re: up coming difficult time

Postby seedling » 02 Jun 2012, 08:43

I can imagine there are feelings still, eventhough your ratio tells you otherwise.. sometimes it just seems to work that way..

Have you ever tried EFT? It brings ratio and emotions in balance, and makes you in control ;-)
It is an easy technique.. tapping certain points on your body. You can find it on the internet along with pdf's..
Though I so advise you to start with a specialist a few times to really get the technique, especially where to focus on and
hów to put your thoughts into the right words to accompany the technique :D

I know you will overcome this out of love for yourself and your two great kids ;-)
Sending you my best,
Love, Seeds
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Re: up coming difficult time

Postby Jan » 02 Jun 2012, 17:58

Hematite, rose quartz and smoky quartz, and do the LBR - often:

http://www.angelpaths.com/lbr.htm

Have you actually made a decision whether you want to be in touch with him? That's another possible option to break the cycle - just say as much.

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Re: up coming difficult time

Postby zereld07 » 02 Jun 2012, 19:30

Thank you Seedling I will google EFT since I am not sure what that is?
Jan I have seen other posting about LBR but I am not sure what that is either? but a positive thing is that I have a huge lovely Rose Quartz piece and small ones to carry with me and smoky quartz to carry and a nice larger Hematite that I can carry as well. As far as wanting to get back with him the answer is NO. That would be a VERY unhealthy thing for myself and my children! at this point I dont even think it is him that I miss per say but I miss that "feeling" of being in love...it took me many years to realize that! being a single mom and my kids have never seen their father and when I work the kids go to a sitter and 1 night a week go to my Mom's while I work so I have very limited time to myself honestly the time I have alone is the hour or 2 when I get home from the night shift I bartend before I go to bed. and I consitantly worry about things in the future that are out of my control so I thing my mind is on overload right now! I really need to find sometime to make for myself but it is very difficult my oldest is 10 and youngest is 3. I was supposed to work tonight but found someone to cover my shift and I am planning on cleaning the house because a clean house always makes me feel better and maybe carve sometime away and dig out my crystals. I need to read up on some affirmations. Thank you for listening to my rambling but like I said I rarely talk about the ex-husband because it embarrasses me and trust me most people would be shocked if they knew!
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Re: up coming difficult time

Postby Jan » 03 Jun 2012, 21:43

All married people serving prison time have wives (or ex's) or husbands on the outside hon. We are not responsible for the stupid things other people do. They do say it's not just the criminal that does the time....

I know what you mean about the state of being one half of a couple. It must be particularly tough whilst managing the family - as it is for single parents generally. It's like never having an off-switch I imagine.

The link in my last post will take you to the LBR and an explanation about it.

It might be a good idea to tell yourself, every time you catch yourself worrying about something that has not happened yet, that you will worry QUITE enough when it actually does so you might just as well save yourself the energy till then.

I hope the clean house has helped to settle your mind....

Loadsa love
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Re: up coming difficult time

Postby kelle » 03 Jul 2012, 02:06

agreed with jan here, love. i don't think it is crystals you need here.

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