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Last Login: 10/05/2008 21:06
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| Dear friends, please send some of your positive strength to guide me through a relationship with a partner who's true intentions are so unclear. I have decided to walk away from this relationship once and for all. I figured another year of mistrust and uncovering lies is just not worth it. It only slowly steals my self worth and confidence. I am tired of the anxiety and stress it causes. In the past, I have attempted to put an end to this relationship and have failed, do to my negative wallowing in loneliness, failure, and egoism. I would always return to him. But I am only wasting time from finding true happiness, with a truly loving partner.
Please send me strength and light to guide me towards an exit, where there is light, true love, happiness, and a home.
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| | | Laid back and loving it
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| | Oh good luck with trying to take a psoitive step toward your own freedom. Remember one of the really hard things to manage when moving on from a relationship is managing the feelings when "if we were together, we'd be doing -this- now" It's very tempting to hide away, licking your wounds, but that just leaves you with empty time on your hands. Are there topics or activites you always fancied exploring but never quite found the time? Well....here it is!! Loadsa love
There are thing you notice in this life and things you don't. When you notice and acknowledge the important things in life you enrich it. When you notice and acknowledge the unimportant things in this life it proves you pay attention. When you do neither what are you????
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Last Login: 10/05/2008 21:06
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| | Thank you so much Jan for your reply. I felt light and strength from you right away. It will help me fight the shadows today. |
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| | Good! Just keep filling in those hours....they'll soon all run out again!! Loadsa love
There are thing you notice in this life and things you don't. When you notice and acknowledge the important things in life you enrich it. When you notice and acknowledge the unimportant things in this life it proves you pay attention. When you do neither what are you????
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| | | Cherub
Group: Forum Members
Last Login: 25/03/2008 15:50
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| hello, you're strength is very inspiring :-) you're right not to be messed about as it does only eat away at your confidence - goodluck 
happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have |
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Divine Being
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| | You're doing the right thing, and once you've got over this person you'll never have to go through this again. It's really worth it. Good luck for the difficult times, and I hope you find the relationship you want soon. Kriss |
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Last Login: 10/05/2008 21:06
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| Thank you all for your supporting words and positivity. I have been studying the tarot for one year and discovered this sight 4 months ago. I've been using it as an extra reference all along. I never explored the community with in. I was feeling so incredibly bad last night. I logged on just to do some research on the hanged man, which I had pulled earlier. I tuned in to the healing forum because the darkness had enclosed its cloak around me. Thank you so much for the great energy I received today.
There were some bad moments today but instead of being pulled under, like usual, a force always made me start smiling. Thank you all for the good vibes! I'm here in the middle of New York City, fighting the shadows, the memory ghosts, and the lonely sickness. Please send strength, light, clarity, and love to help me down the rest of this path. I must break the pattern or this relationship could break me.
My warmest and deepest gratitude for this sight and to this community. |
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| | Oh bless you. This is so horrible isn't it? It truly will get better in the end. Many huggles and strong thoughts to you. Keep asking yourself how it will feel to be healed.... Loadsa love
There are thing you notice in this life and things you don't. When you notice and acknowledge the important things in life you enrich it. When you notice and acknowledge the unimportant things in this life it proves you pay attention. When you do neither what are you????
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AngelWithWings
Group: Forum Members
Last Login: 12/05/2008 21:23
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| | Oh, I can relate to this!! It's sooo hard to just not go back. Those niggly little thoughts 'maybe this time it'll get better' just pop up when you least need them, eh? Well, if you've got the strength and clarity to recognise that this person hasn't helped you be happy - in fact, the opposite - and that you're slowly getting sucked down like water down a drainhole, then you've got what it takes to get out there and start again. It WILL be ok, you'll be ok. Keep yourself distracted and comforted - I find teen fiction great to read, no lovey dovey stuff - and the days will pass and eventually it won't be the first and last thing you think of. Freedom awaits!! Well done. Chin up, and keep that flame of hope burning in your heart xxxxxx
Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right. Henry Ford. |
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